
And the love continues as we take our 3rd multi-generational family mission trip to Rogersville, TN! We hope you are blessed by following along to see what God is doing not only among our team members, but also in the lives of people we meet along the way. May God be glorified through all we say and do!!
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Annsley's Trip
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Grits and Butter, a Week Full of Blessings!!!
I want to leave you with the thoughts of our young people. These are their "grits and butter" moments, and as a friend of mine so properly called it when he read the whole grits and butter story - God's really in this stuff:
-God arranged so that I got to see my new friend I met at sports camp (Maria), for the last time on her bike on the way home from dinner at the church.
-God used my size to help get tools and materials from trucks that others couldn't get.
-I saw a mountain and I thought...God is as big as a mountain and I am so small...
-God was in it all from day 1 to day 4.
-Having a clean house to live in.
-We were cleaning Mrs. Weston's house and singing our verse and when we got done I said God and sin is like cleaning a "frigrator". Before it is clean it had sin all over it, after it was clean God washed all the sin away.
-There was a horse at one of the construction sites, a piece of comfort just for me.
-I'm not as shy as I was before this trip.
-The rain at the construction crew on Monday, I was on the roof and it was hot!
-Finding treasure in all that trash!!! Seeing how happy she was with the job we did.
-When we put the light in Mrs. Flodell's bathroom and bedroom she cried and said she had never had a light over her head. We went outside and continued working and when I came inside a few minutes later she was still there crying and cutting the light off and on.
-God uses different types of people to share his love.
-Mr. John (92 years old) helped me realize even if something isn't right with you, He still loves you.
-When I got a cross necklace from Ms. Amy I started thinking who to give it to. After about 2 days at the sports camp I saw the choice was clear - Malachi. When I gave Malachi the necklace he was ecstatic. His grandma even looked at what the beads meant. I love Malachi and hope he had a good time.
-We were able to finish both of our houses and finish everything we needed done, and I was able to go to another house and help there.
-Boulder splash, that's when Malachi went to a little stream and threw a pebble in it and yelled "boulder splash!" Which started a whole hour of throwing rocks in the stream. I learned God can help children understand the love of Jesus through something as simple as throwing "boulders."
-Hannah Lester (a girl from sports camp) said she wanted me to move here so she could have a good friendship with me.
-Gina missed her last softball game for sports camp. She said it was THE BEST THING EVER!
-It made me feel good finding an old ladies yearbook for her from her elementary time.
-God protected me at basketball camp.
-Glad we have a safe house.
-When Mrs. O saw the bathroom we finished for her, her eyes lit up. She started crying and couldn't stop hugging me and telling me how much she loved me.
-Riding through mountains through the pastures on Wednesday morning and "How Great is our God" came on the radio. The sun was peeking through the clouds and it was so beautiful it brought tears to my eyes.
-At sports camp we found out one of the kids homes was actually being worked on by our group.
-It was fun to watch the smiles on the kids faces as they received their goodies at sports camp.
-When I was going to Mrs. Lowe's house I had butterflys. When I got there she was so happy to see me. Her house was being worked on and she was so happy that she had a bathroom. This was her first time ever having one, seeing her made me thankful that God sent us there last year. When I left she was crying. I know God used us to show her He loves her.
-How Miss Flodell said she had never had a light in the back of her house for 60 years.
-Just about the time it was gonna rain on Monday the people from the school came out to say we could use the gym.
-I made new friends Maria and Hannah.
-I've never been to the mountains so on the way up here (when we were close enough to see the mountains) I couldn't believe what I saw. All I could do was stare. It was so beautiful. All I saw was God.
-I am thankful for food.
-I should clean my room, not throw stuff around, put trash in the trash can, and take care of the stuff I have.
-I need to smile and love on people because everybody needs some love. Everybody doesn't have friends and family like me.
-Everything we have needed to get done has gotten done quick.
-The team at sports camp were able to help each individual kid.
-The trip has shown me that I'm not in the way of everyone and I'm here for a reason.
May God use the experiences of our week to remind you, teach you, challenge you, and possibly send you - just as He has done us.
Friday, July 27, 2012
Lessons from TN
Last year I was blown away from the way some of the people here live and the lack of knowledge of knowing how to live. I cleaned homes I never thought I could even step foot in. God used the people and their circumstances to teach me a lesson or two.:-) God sent me to a house that changed my heart forever. That is where I met Mrs. Lowe and was able to clean her house and do some things for her, but most of all He allowed her to open up to me and from there a relationship between Mrs. Lowe and myself formed. Throughout the year I have talked to her about once a month and she calls me often and ask for prayer or just calls to talk. She tells me numerous times that I am like family to her and one of the only "family members" that she has.
Now fast forward to this week. I was able to go and visit with her yesterday and was over joyed when I pulled up and saw a construction team there working on her "shack". She was beyond excited to see us and was so proud of what was going on at her house. For the first time ever, she was going to have a bathroom! This time when I said my "good byes" to her it was different. I was sad, but for different reasons than before. Last year, my heart was broke knowing I was leaving her in that shack. This year, I left knowing that she has everything she needed to live a "normal" life. Her living circumstances are a lot better than a year ago, but her heart still hurts from things that have happen to her in the past and the way she has been treated by family and "church members" over the years.
Today, when I pulled away from her house, it became clear to me why God sent us there last summer. It wasn't only for us to clean Mrs. Lowe's house and to get her connected with One Accord Ministry. Although all those things are great and because of that one visit we made last summer resulted to her having a construction team at her house a this very moment. The reason God sent me there last summer was to show me that He loves me no matter what the circumstance is in my life and that it is not about me, it is about Him and His calling on my life.
Also, this week God has reminded me of the wonderful family that I have. We have visited with so many people that don't have family around. Today I talked with lady that was telling me that her husband has never bought her a birthday present or anniversary gift and they have been married for 39 years. I am beyond blessed with a godly husband that loves me know matter what and I was reminded today how I take him for granted. My prayer is that what God has shown me this week will not just be a memory but an action that I live out everyday. I have so enjoyed being here and loving on the people in TN, but I am very much ready to bring this love home and love on the people of Florence, SC.
Lori Dulaney
My Experience by Katelyn Bair
...and Butter
Rita, Cleo, Reece, Sara, Barbara, Nancy, Mary, Hailie, Shirley and Ruby have reminded Jennings and I both of the value of family and true friendship. Each in their own special way, these women from 60-93 blessed our hearts in ways I cannot begin to explain to you. They each have a story - and I could spend hours telling you each one - from the one that wanted to take the hammer and knock my diamond off because we knocked the stick out of her door jam, but let me fix it AFTER we had already cleaned for her :) - and then cried tears of joy when we gave her a prayer shawl as we left her...to the two single ladies that God has brought together as neighbors to care for each other - one who can't talk and the other who has come up with a "system" for them to use on the phone so she knows if the other is in trouble. I think the best way to sum up these women and their lives is how Jennings so simply put it "mama we just need to love people." I said "what people Jennings?" He said, "everybody mama, cause everybody needs love - and everybody just don't have the kind of family and friends like we do." Enough said...
We had a God ordained opportunity to re-visit the house that Jennifer, Tricia, Jordan and Jenna spent the whole entire week at last year. This is the home of Billy Joe and Rowena Weston. I knew when the opportunity came up it was not going to be a pie job, but what I didn't realize was that God's intentions for us went far deeper than house and yard work. Trina spent 4 hours with a push mower wading through knee deep grass while Heather, Shawn myself and the children tackled the kitchen. Now when I say tackled the kitchen that is exactly what I mean. I knew what to expect, but knowing and seeing are 2 different things. We prayed before I went in the house, but on my way back out to "debrief" the gang I prayed some more. I knew they had never seen anything like this and I also knew when we went there could be no gagging, no holding noses, no stares, no cringing at the sights, nothing but smiles and acting like everything was fine. We were going into "clean" house and what I would soon come to realize was to help "mend" hearts. The kitchen counter tops were covered up to the bottom of the cabinets, kitchen table stacked as high as it could be without falling off, stove and sink full, all covered with months of old food, trash, live roaches, dead roaches, live maggots, dead maggots, ants, other random bugs and rat droppings. The floor was just as bad along with remnants from the dogs that live in the house and don't make it outside when necessary. Combine all that with the smell you can imagine accompanied it, and the flys we stirred up when we moved pots and dishes, and to say we were overwhelmed is an understatement. When we finished we had 13 big black lawn size garbage bags full. We only scratched the surface...but this was not what upset me. When I went to pray with her before we left she started talking about her past, the people who had hurt her....friends, family, church people, her husband....all "Christian" people. She talked about how much she missed Jennifer and Tricia and how she longed to see them and how much she missed them. One of the few places still kept clean in her house was a shelf they fixed for her with their pictures. You see for her they are 2 of only 3 people that she feels loved by and cared for. We started talking about her salvation and got to the point where she admitted to Shawn and myself that she was not sure...she could not tell me for sure where she would be when she died. Oh how she wanted to be in heaven with her mama but she had just been hurt so badly and hated too many people, how in the world could God ever love her and ever forgive her...we kept talking and many things came up that we were able to share with her that it was no accident that we ended up back at her house. But she just kept going back to the "church people" and others that had hurt her, and her husband who is supposed to be a Christian but does not treat her like he should, and she just didn't think God could love her like she was. Finally, I looked at her and I reminded her of how Jennifer and Tricia had come in her house and cleaned it up, took out all the trash and made it look like new. Cleaned her up, made her feel better, look better, smile and most importantly feel loved. I told her that was exactly what Jesus would do - He would come in and take her just like she was, fix her up, clean her and love her...right where she was. I told her to forget about all those other church people and her husband...that Jennifer and Tricia and those girls, that was what Jesus looked like. At that point she cried, we all cried. She still was not ready to pray and be sure of her salvation, but she did let us pray for her. Walking out of that house was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. We did what we could, we did what we were sent to do...cleaning out the kitchen was the small part - and I'd do it all over again tomorrow. I'd sit on her couch with bugs crawling on me, I'd kneel on her living room floor with dog mess and everything else on it if it meant that God could use me to let her see His face again.
That is what it's all about. That is why I cannot ignore when God tells me to GO, because there are people all over this world that need to see Jesus. That is why we come on these trips and why we do things at home...that is why everyday in everything we say and do we should bring honor and glory to His name because you never know when you are going to be the ONLY Jesus that someone will see...
Thursday, July 26, 2012
Kipp's Post #3...My GRITS Moment
I connected him with Amy, Daniel, and Teresa, and before I knew it, we were watching a video of his work in the Phillipines...he has a christian school, he is planting churches in two sections of the Phillipines, and he loves Jesus! He shared with us two things that blew me away:
- Attendees at his school can be sponsored for $450/year...to be at the school, you are required to attend church on Sundays...with your parents!
- In one section of the Phillipines where he is planting a church, it is heavily Muslim, so they have to baptize in the middle of the night...if they are caught, they will be killed...We prayed with him...he prayed for us...and hopefully he and Daniel will be back in contact. I was blown away that God arranged for us to be in TN when he was here from half way around the world...coincidence? The way I've heard it is this - "A coincidence is God's was of remaining anonymous"
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
A post from Melinda
I guess that is, in a nutshell, what all 67 of us are doing this week, in Tennessee. The trip, the planning, the work, have all had their share of discouragement, and many different signs that Satan isn't interesting in Christians spending a week out of their year to devote their time, energy, talents, efforts, strength, prayers, and love to people for no other reason than to be a picture of the love of Jesus. Some of us have been welcomed into the homes of lives of the people we have met. Some of us have been thanked, we have been treated very kindly and respectfully, we have recieved as much from our actions as those people we are attempting to help. Yet I pray that we all are mindful that although the wonderful feeling and "warm heart" that many of us get when we help others, is an earthly pleasure, it should be at the bottom of the list of our motivation.
Instead, there are 4 biblical reason that should guide our hearts and minds this week.
1- Christians are expected to have compassion on those we see in need, because it is a result of having the love of God, In essence, loving God and having his love in you, will cause you to have compassion for those who are less fortunate.
1 John 3:17
2-God loves a cheerful giver.
3-God is able to bless you abundantly.
4-A Christian's obedience to God's command to love one another and to take care of the material needs of those less among us who are less fortunate, results in praise to God.
2 Corinthians 9:6-15
Although their are so many wonderful experiences and we have all been richly blessed, don't think that everything has gone smoothly and everyone has been gracious and pleasant. At least a few of us have knocked on a door, only to be told "its not a good time", "I don't feel well", or some other less than warm responce. For every bright smiling face on the Lunch Bus, there have been two sullen, unresponsive, indifferent ones. The reason I remind others--and myself--of this, is to be sure that we have the right motivation. If we are here to show the love and God and to obey his command, then it doesn't make any difference how we are recieved. We are here, we are pushing forward in every attempt to abide by our Lord's command, and We Are Truly Blessed!
Please continue to pray for our continued safety and our ability to show the love of God to those in our path.
In His Holy Name,
Melinda
Grits...
Jennings and I have had the pleasure of working at the food pantry, visiting 5 wonderful senior ladies, working on the lunch bus and doing a little bit of house work for one of the ladies. We served 42 children on the lunch bus today, many who would not eat a hot meal, or any meal for that matter were it not for that bus. Now I'll just tell you, today was a hard day for me. To see a 3 year old child wander up to a bus to eat with no adults in site, have to leave before they finish eating with no adults anywhere to be seen....or a little girl who is every bit of 4 or 5 but tells you she is 1 because she honestly doesn't know (which you can barely understand) standing looking out her window watching for the bus to come and then watching as it pulls away...well needless to say it was almost more than I could stand. Today more than ever I realize how fortunate I was to grow up in a home with two parents who loved me, fed me and made sure my every need was met - and most importantly made sure I knew who Jesus was. Today if I had one thing to be thankful for it would most definitely be my parents. Oh the things and people we take for granted...
For my little man it has been two long days but he has been quite the trooper, working through lunch and not getting to eat until 1 and 2:00 and not once complaining or asking if it was time to leave. He really has impressed me at how well he has kept up with the pace and adapted as needed. But then why should I be surprised...we have prayed that God would enable him to be able to accomplish any task He put before him, just like all the rest of us, and God has and will continue to. I have watched him work and wondered what was going through his little mind, wondering if and what he was taking in... Tonight in our small group I asked the question what is one thing you have realized that you have that you are really thankful for? I then went around the circle and asked everyone to answer. Jennings was the second to last person to answer and when it came to him I really expected him to say something that had already been said but he didn't. He said "Food. I'm thankful that at home we have food to eat b/c a lot of the people here, they don't." Well if you are a parent and you've ever had that feeling that you get when you see your child learning a life lesson and you know they are "getting it"...then you know exactly how I felt - and if you know me, you know that since I was the last person to answer it took me a few minutes to compose myself to give my answer after his :) My answer was my parents as I said earlier, but my second answer on this day of this particular week in my life would be that I have been blessed with this opportunity to share in this experience with my child...knowing that somehow in the end watching him grow is going to bless me ten thousand times more...
A post from Bryson Little
been very sad to very funny. I hope to see all of you at church on Sunday.
~ Bryson Little
Monday, July 23, 2012
Kipp Day #2 Post
God was working...we saw a storm coming over the mountain, and before is got to us, we learned that we would have access to the gym until Wednesday...he does provide! We had a great "marketing team" today helping spread the word about our camp. We also have a second location in a more populated place...see what tomorrow brings! Like Lori, Bryson and Caleb blew me away with their challenge to us...using Stephen as their basis, they challenged us to be a motivation to others through our service to Christ.
A Post from one of the Dulaney's
It was a very rewarding day being able to visit with the home owner and help her clean out a room that she was not physically able to do herself.
Tonight before dinner Daniel asked me how my day was and I said "It was fine". That was all, it was just fine, nothing wonderful or magical but it was a good day. Little did I know that God was about to rock my world. During our team meeting we opened up by singing "Open the eyes of my heart", and all I could do was sing that song with tears running down my checks because that is exactly my prayer for not only this week, but for my life.
Followed by our time of worship through song, Bryson and Caleb Little lead our devotion. Now folks, I am here to tell you that God uses people of ALL ages! The message was so powerful and was exactly what I(we) needed to hear! Just when I thought my heart could not get any fuller, God once again rocked my world when we broke into our small groups and shared about our day. As I sat there and listened I was in Awe of Gods goodness.
I am so thankful that God has once again allowed Daniel, Grace Anne and I to come and share His love to the people of TN. God is doing great things in the lives of each team member and is using each of them to glorify His name! Hold on people, this week is only going to get better! I can't wait to see what God has in store!!!!!
Sending lots of love,
Lori Dulaney
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Kipp's Day 1 Post
After a few interesting moments of room swapping due to a few of us being placed in smoking rooms, we are all set and relaxing until we get together for our first evening gathering and dinner. Hopefully our room door will hold up to the constant opening and closing by a group of little girls (Annsley, Maggie, Abby, Grace Anne).
Like Denise, I'm excited about this week that lies ahead of us. I have no idea what to expect from the sports camp where I'll be serving. Pre sign ups have been light, and we lost access to the gym...flexibility and trusting God is my plan!
THANK YOU to those of you who put together the prayer/care packages for us...AWESOME!! It's comforting to know we are covered in prayer all week.
Keep checking in to see what God has in store for Rogersville and us...
We are here!
Monday, July 16, 2012
Here we go...again!!!
1- Mission trips just turn me upside down w/ anticipation and excitement :)
2- There are 31 "rookies" and 38 "repeats" going back to TN for more action!
3- We are taking on new challenges this year we've never done before! New stuff = fun stuff :)
4- 23 of the 69 people going are children or youth (don't tell but those are my favorite peeps!)
5- This year my 7 year old Jennings will be coming with me for his first ever mission trip!!!
There is no doubt this year's trip is going to be a blessing to all involved. I have said before, every mission trip I've ever been on is special - each in it's own unique way. Every experience is different, and the lessons learned are unique to the people and the situations that God places you in. It never ceases to amaze me how God can take you to the same place and yet it can be completely different. I know that once again, He has big things in store for our team members and the people of Rogersville. I just can't wait to see what they are...stay tuned, it's gonna be good and no doubt will bless your socks off before the week is over!